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Fairfield University abandons its sexually abused homeless street children


No money coming from Fairfield U. for Haiti sex abuse victims
http://www.ctpost.com/local/article/No-money-coming-from-Fairfield-U-for-Haiti-sex-720498.php
Michael P. Mayko, Staff Writer — Connecticut Post
Published: 08:16 p.m., Saturday, October 23, 2010
FAIRFIELD — Paul Kendrick woke up Saturday morning with confidence and hope.

The Maine advocate for victims of sexual abuse at Doug Perlitz‘ Project Pierre Toussaint in Haiti was confident he would convince Fairfield University President Jeffrey von Arx to contribute $25,000 to help school, feed and treat 20 of the young victims.

After all, Kendrick claims Fairfield University is partly responsible. They promoted Pertliz and heaped honors on the 1992 graduate who created a three-stage program to help feed, clothe and educate street boys in Cap-Haitien, Haiti’s second largest city. Then in August, following a yearlong legal battle, Perlitz pleaded guilty to a federal charge of traveling to Haiti to engage in sex with one minor boy.

“I’m going to tell von Arx I have a desperate situation and they are partly responsible,” said Kendrick, a 1972 Fairfield University graduate who had sought this meeting for nearly a year. “I need the money to get these kids through April.”

As Kendrick made the walk to the meeting, his associates — including the Rev. Robert Hoatson, who operates Road to Recovery in Livingston, N.J., for victims of sexual abuse by clergy; Paul Kellen, a founder of National Survivor Advocates Coalition; Dick Regan and Kevin Waldrip, both victims — and others handed out 300 leaflets describing the plight to people entering the North Benson Road gate to celebrate Parents’ and Homecoming weekend.

About an hour later, Kendrick returned dejected and disappointed.

“It was low tone and cordial,” Kendrick said before adding, “He’s not going to help us. I’ve just got to keep trying to Band-Aid this.”

Kendrick then gave a lengthy filmed interview to CNN. The station plans to broadcast a lengthy segment about the Perlitz case during its Dec. 20 edition of “Anderson Cooper 360.” It will come the night before Perlitz is sentenced by U.S. District Judge Janet Bond Arterton at the federal courthouse in New Haven.

“I warned Paul the church usually uses these events not to reach out in a positive Gospel manner, but to avoid more negative publicity,” said Hoatson, who, because of his work with survivors of clergy abuse, is on administrative leave from the Newark Diocese.

The State Department and the Department of Homeland Security are arranging to fly six of the victims and two of the officials from the school to speak at the sentencing. Also expected to come is Cyrus Sibert, the journalist who exposed the abuse in a 2007 series of reports.

Mark Gregorio, a spokesman for Fairfield University, said the school would not be making a comment on the private meeting.

Earlier he released a statement in which the university maintains it has “identified partners in Connecticut and Cap-Haitien” and is in discussion with them with the hope of reaching “a resolution soon on how best to provide significant assistance to the children of Cap-Haitien and the former residents of Project Pierre Toussaint.”

“I can’t tell you how disappointed I am,” Kendrick said. “I’m a guy who never ceases to be amazed by leaders of the Catholic Church.”

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Press Release

Released, October 21, 2010
Contact: Paul Kendrick 207-838 1319/


Fairfield University alum wonders why?
University has abandoned homeless street children sexually abused at University created and sponsored – Project Pierre Toussaint
WHY

Alumnus wants to know why Jesuit officials at Fairfield University refuse to help feed, clothe, shelter, educate and provide medical assistance for the street children in Haiti who were sexually abused by the former Executive Director of Fairfield University sponsored, Project Pierre Toussaint.

During the past 10 years, Jesuit and Fairfield University officials took every opportunity to publicize the work being accomplished at the school in Haiti, but when the rubber hit the road and it was discovered that many of the students were being sexually abused by Fairfield University alumnus, Douglas Perlitz, Fairfield University President Jeffrey von Arx, S.J. did everything he could to distance himself and the university from both the school and the boys who were traumatized by their abuse.

WHO/WHAT

1972 Fairfield University alumnus Paul Kendrick will be joined by a small group of victims/survivors of sex abuse, supporters and advocates handing out fliers on the Fairfield University campus to protest the abandonment of child sex abuse victims in Haiti who were raped by Fairfield University alumnus, Douglas Perlitz.

For the past two and one-half years, Fairfield University has abandoned and ignored the homeless street children in Haiti who were sexually abused by Perlitz, the former Executive Director of Fairfield University created and sponsored – Project Pierre Toussaint in Cap Haitian, Haiti.

In recent months, the boys in Haiti have barely been receiving a daily ration of rice, beans and spaghetti provided by the generous donations of abuse victims/survivors and supporters from New England. In addition, the boys have each received a pair of shoes and although most were able to be enrolled in school, tuition still needs to be paid in full. Over $9,000 has been raised privately but now there is no money. Immediate help is needed from Fairfield University.

Fairfield University President Jeffrey von Arx, S.J. won’t even help the victims by donating a measly $2 per day, per boy, to help provide for their basic needs of food, water, safe shelter, medicine and education.

WHEN

Saturday, October 23, 2010 from 9:00 a.m. to 12:00 p.m. It is Homecoming Weekend at Fairfield University.

WHERE

On the public sidewalk at the main entrance to Fairfield University, 1073 North Benson Rd., Fairfield , Connecticut, 06824.

HANDOUT / FLYER:

Fairfield University basked in the shining grace of Project Pierre Toussaint
There can be no argument that the Fairfield University community proudly aligned itself with Doug Perlitz’s humanitarian work in Haiti. In the minds of many, Perlitz was the personification of a Jesuit education; he was a “Person for Others.”

For eleven years, Fairfield University’s campus ministry operation, under the direction of Rev. Paul Carrier, S.J., immersed itself in Project Pierre Toussaint. The Egan Chapel was filled with photos, newsletters, etc. about Perlitz and Project Pierre Toussaint. Father Carrier traveled to Haiti almost once a month and spoke with Perlitz by phone several times each day.

Carrier was always asking the editors of university magazines and newsletters to publish stories about the Haiti project. In addition, Carrier raised money for the Project whenever he spoke at local parishes. In many ways, Paul Carrier was the kind of guy a non-profit would like to have on their team. He was a successful, energetic, charismatic “rainmaker” who knew how to tug at people’s hearts.

Carrier used a Fairfield University mailing address to accept donations for the Haiti Fund, Inc., a non-profit corporation that was established by Carrier to oversee the Haiti Project. Carrier chaperoned many “Ignatian Immersion Experience” trips to Haiti with students from the University. In 2002, the University awarded Perlitz an honorary Doctor of Laws degree and Perlitz was asked to deliver the commencement address. In 2005, Perlitz was the recipient of the Alumni Humanitarian Award at the annual Fairfield University Awards Dinner in New York City.

Then, in April 2006, for reasons still not entirely clear, Carrier was removed without warning as Director of Fairfield’s Campus Ministry to embark upon a sabbatical to prepare for his next assignment. Two years later in April 2008, Jesuit Provincial Thomas Regan, S.J., ordered Carrier to resign as Chairman of the Haiti Fund, Inc. and to resign from his non-salaried teaching position at the Sacred Heart Convent School in Greenwich. In October 2009, it was announced by the Provincial that Carrier was restricted from all public ministry. There have been no charges of child sex abuse against Carrier.

Keeping Secrets

In October 2008, Dr. Mark Reed, Vice President for Administrative and Student Affairs at Fairfield University was approached with a reasonable request to help protect children (at the time, Perlitz’s whereabouts were unknown).

“If a person were to visit the Fairfield University web site and enter “Douglas Perlitz” in the search bar, one would immediately view 25 Fairfield University press releases about Perlitz. After reading the press releases, one would think that Perlitz is a saint, a special individual who has devoted his life to helping others. Think about this. If the owner of a day care center goggled Perlitz’s name as part of the hiring process, he or she would think they hit the jackpot and would most likely hire Perlitz immediately. They would have no idea that the Project Pierre Toussaint Board of Directors is on record as having fired Perlitz for the sexual abuse of children … Please ensure that the information about why Douglas Perlitz was fired as Executive Director of Project Pierre Toussaint (you can publish the Board’s public letter) is published on the Fairfield University website … Protecting innocent children from cunning and manipulative child molesters is everyone’s job, Dr. Reed.” Paul Kendrick, Fairfield University, ‘72

Reed did nothing. Six months later, in April 2009, Reed was sent a copy of the warrant for Perlitz’s arrest that had just been issued by a Haitian National Court judge. Again, Reed took no action. Other senior officials, including President von Arx were sent copies of all correspondence with Reed. Von Arx did nothing.

The Children Left Behind

By April 2008, the New England Society of Jesus and Fairfield University officials were distancing themselves from a situation that had all the earmarks of a “scandal.” Although Perlitz wasn’t fired by the Board of Directors until August 2008, Carrier had been ordered to resign from the Haiti Fund Board four months earlier. Sadly, it is evident that neither Carrier nor Jesuit and Fairfield University officials cared anything about the well being of the boys in Haiti who were abused and about to be displaced.

Where were the prophetic voices of President Jeffrey von Arx, S.J. and Jesuit Provincial, Thomas Regan, S.J., in September 2008 when Carrier and other former board members sent a letter to financial donors in which they disparaged and berated the individuals who fired Perlitz and not so subtly implied that the Haitian boys were lying?

Why weren’t these Jesuit priests rushing to the aid of the remaining and beaten down Haiti Fund Board of Directors who were fighting for the school’s survival against Carrier and his allies. It is incredible that three Jesuit priests, von Arx, Carrier and Regan stood on the sidelines and said nothing as the Project’s donors stopped giving, the Project closed and helpless kids were forced back onto the streets with nothing to eat and no place safe to sleep.

Damn. Somewhere in our old textbooks, the Jesuits taught us that the service of our faith must include the promotion of justice.

Someone’s eyes were closed

In a June 2002 address to the United States Conference of Catholic Bishops entitled “The Experience of the Victim of Sexual Abuse,” Dr. Mary Gail Frawley-O’Dea, Ph.D. said in part, “If it takes a community to raise a child, it also takes a community to abuse one so that whenever a minor is sexually violated, someone’s eyes are closed. Throughout history and in every segment of society, the most common response to the suspicion or even the disclosure of childhood sexual abuse has been self-defensive denial and dissociation. No one finds it easy to stand in the overwhelming and destabilizing reality of sexual abuse. Thus, blindness, deafness, and elective mutism are responses endemic to many confronted by a victimized child, an adult survivor, or a perpetrating adult. To the extent, however, that the sexual victimization of a minor depends upon the silence of adults who knew, suspected, or should have known about the abuse, the burdens of shame and reparation reach beyond the perpetrator.”

The Fairfield University community is showing great disrespect to the Haitian people

The people of Haiti possess great pride, strength and dignity. There is a kindness and compassion about them that only those who have been oppressed and those who have suffered can know.

It is inconceivable that the mighty and powerful forces of the New England Jesuits, Fairfield University (and the Order of Malta) have not provided for the most basic needs of the child sex abuse victims.

Each day that goes by and the school in Haiti remains closed is but one more day that we are showing great disrespect for the people of Haiti. As it stands now, our message to our brothers and sisters in Haiti is loud and clear: “One of us raped your children. Your children told us what happened. In response we have closed your school and abandoned you.’

“I hope God forgives me for what I have done,” said a boy who was sexually abused by Perlitz.“

It wasn’t your fault,” we told him.

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